A wee symbol of unity and togetherness
The Quaich is a traditional Scottish two‑handled cup, symbolising unity, trust and the joining of two families. It’s one of the simplest gestures to include — warm, meaningful, and beautifully Scottish without being overly formal.
What it symbolises
- Sharing life together
- Trust and partnership
- Two families becoming one
A moment of calm connection in the ceremony.
The two handles represent each of you holding the cup together — a literal symbol of meeting in the middle.
How it works on the day
- Your celebrant introduces the Quaich and its meaning.
- You hold the Quaich together.
- Each of you takes a sip — one after the other, until the quaich is empty.
The moment can be light‑hearted, traditional, or quietly reflective.
What you will need
- Your chosen drink (anything meaningful to you)
- Traditional whisky is common, but you’re absolutely free to choose:
- A favourite spirit
- A cocktail
- A soft drink
- Something symbolic
- Even water
Your own Quaich if you’d like to use a personal or engraved one.
It’s the act of sharing that matters, not what’s inside.
What we supply
If you’re not bringing your own, your celebrant will provide a Quaich for use on the day.
Where it fits in the ceremony
Sharing a Quaich usually sits after the signing of the marriage schedule.
Variations you might like
- Family Pouring — a parent from each side pours a little into the Quaich before you drink.
- Blended Drinks — you each add a small measure of something different, creating a new blend together.
- Children’s Moment — children add a drop of juice or water.
- Keepsake Quaich — engraved with names or your wedding date.
Things to consider
- Would you like to use your own Quaich or your celebrant’s?
- What drink feels meaningful or “you”?
- Would you like family involved in the pouring?
- Should the moment be light‑hearted, traditional, or somewhere in between?
A wee reassurance
You don’t need to choose this now — and you don’t need to choose it at all. If sharing a Quaich feels like a warm, meaningful moment for you, wonderful. If not, your ceremony will still be every bit as personal and heartfelt.